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Vanishing Acts: The Psychology of Ghosting - securing sexuality podcast episode 94

7/28/2024

You know that feeling when you meet someone new, and everything seems to click, and you're super excited to hear from them until, one day... you don't? Yeah. You got ghosted. If you've ever been left thinking WTF after a promising paramour pulls a vanishing act, this episode is for you! This week, Stef and Wolf are joined by Peter Jonason, a social/personality psychologist who uses evolutionary theory to (mostly) explain personality, mating strategies, and sęxuality. He's here to explain why ghosting happens and what lessons we can learn about dating by looking at how other creatures approach courtship.

Improvise, Adapt, Over...Come? - securing sexuality podcast episode 93

7/21/2024

What do the Gremlins, Feminist Theory, and Stefani's 3rd grade Odyssey of the Mind team have in common? They all got us thinking about adaptive technologies and how we can promote pleasure and intimacy across the lifespan. In this week's free-ranging conversation, Stef and Wolf talk about aging, living and loving with disabilities, and Stef's favorite buzzy (and not so buzzy) toys for all bodies.

Call Me By Their Name: Identity Theft Today - securing sexuality podcast episode 92

7/14/2024

This week Wolf and Stef are joined by the amazing Mona Terry, Chief Victims Officer for the Identity Theft Resource Center. In an age where it seems like our data is stolen by someone new every day, she's here to help us understand the scope of the problem, the systems that can protect us, and what to do if (when) it happens to you.

Called Out & Cancelled - Securing sexuality podcast episode 91

7/7/2024

Wolf and Stef just got back from New Orleans - a city known for daring and debauchery. So it's probably not a huge surprise that the #1 question they were asked by the folks they met in NOLA was, "What can I do to keep from getting called out when I say or do something that rubs others the wrong way?" Doxxing is a very real concern these days, and self-righteousness has been weaponized on both sides of the culture war. Wolf and Stef wax philosophical about this and discuss what, if anything, someone can do to keep from being canceled.

Vanishing Acts: The Psychology of Ghosting - securing sexuality podcast episode 94

Improvise, Adapt, Over...Come? - securing sexuality podcast episode 93

Call Me By Their Name: Identity Theft Today - securing sexuality podcast episode 92

Called Out & Cancelled - Securing sexuality podcast episode 91

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Vanishing Acts: The Psychology of Ghosting - securing sexuality podcast episode 94

Improvise, Adapt, Over...Come? - securing sexuality podcast episode 93

Call Me By Their Name: Identity Theft Today - securing sexuality podcast episode 92

Called Out & Cancelled - Securing sexuality podcast episode 91

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